How bullying manifests at work and how to stop it - Article

 "(...)Ignoring or placating bullies results in losing conscientious performers. Over time, those organizations will be poisoned by a critical mass of toxic individuals and a snake-pit culture."

Great article. Pay attention to their Workplace Bullying Taxonomy chart. Nevertheless, I would add an important advice to the article: "Buy a recorder as soon as you feel the bullying starts! The sooner the better. And record, record, record every interaction with the bullies (the "hot, emotional, hostile type) and the slanderers (the cold, instrumental type one). Good luck!


https://hbr.org/2022/11/how-bullying-manifests-at-work-and-how-to-stop-it

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